Friday, March 23, 2012

Some Pics Thus Far....

I think I finally figured out the trick to getting strong Internet/VPN service here.  (I'll probably have to start over when we get to Hefei tomorrow.)  Anyhow, here are a few of our journey so far.

The first leg of our trip...almost to Tokyo!

Sitting in the rickshaw, ready for our tour...

This is the courtyard of the old house we visited.  There were rooms on all 4 sides.  Look in the pot - beautiful goldfish!

Us and the man who owned the house....He was in the military long ago and then worked in construction.  His grandfather willed the house to him and he's lived here for 60 years.  It is now worth approximately $4 million; it is one of the few pieces of private property left.  (The government owns most of the property here.)

Tim and I dressed in ceremonial honeymoon garb, sitting in the honeymoon suite (a small room with a bed and TV)

Our gang in the courtyard

This was a reggae bar in the old part of town...too funny, I had to take a picture.

Learning about how worms make silk

Silk comes from the cocoons of the worms.  See the dead worm in the corner?

The ladies made beautiful blankets from the woven silk.

Our table for yummy traditional, Chinese lunch...

In Tianenmen Square....See how hard the wind was blowing?

A stoic guard in front of the Forbidden City

Tim and me in front of the entrance to the Forbidden City

Rubbing the gold door knobs for good luck

I haven't worked up the nerve to go in one of the traditional potties here.  (I don't think my leg muscles are strong enough.)  However, I may have to before we leave.

Inside one of the palace rooms....fit for an emperor, huh?

One of the many palace buildings

This is a stone sculpture in the Imperial Garden.  All the stones were imported and the empress ruled this part of the kingdom.

One of the many sculptures featured....This one was in the garden.  Look at the feet; they are backwards.

The emperor also made a man-made mountain.  This was at its peak.
Hopefully, we'll have more to post after our adventure today....the Great Wall, the Olympic stadium, and an acrobatic show.  Miss you all!

Hutong Tour, Tiananmen Square, and Forbidden City

Today we took a wonderful tour of some fabulous Beijing sites.  We started with the Hutong Tour where we boarded a rickshaw (bicycle driven carriage) and rode through the older, more traditional streets of Beijing.  Beijing is a wonderful mixture of the old and the new, but we were told that mainly older people live in the traditional houses.  They sacrifice private bathrooms for beautiful courtyards where children play, gardens grow, and birds in cages nest.  We visited one man's home who told us how extended families live together in these houses.  Tim and I had a great picture made in the honeymoon suite.  Now, mind you, all rooms in the courtyard house are maybe 8' x 10' or 10' x 10' at the largest.  They include a separate kitchen, dining area, sitting area (like our family room, but much much smaller), and bedrooms.  By the way, the beds in Beijing are extremely hard, but I hear that they are good for you back. :)

From there, we visited a silk factory and learned how they retrieve the silk from the silk worms.  It was interesting and a little gross.  They actually get the sick from the coccoons that the larvae spin.  The process that extracts the silk actually kills the worm.  I have great pics that I'll upload later.  Of course, we did some damage in the shop, buying silk dresses for Chloe, Mer, and Hannah, silk ties, and a silk scarf.  Too much fun.

Then, we had lunch with our crew (3 other families) at a wonderful Chinese restaurant.  We ate in the traditional family style, with a lazy Susan in the middle, housing dish after dish that they brought out.  We ate fish, chicken and beef and I am happy to say that no one got sick.

After lunch, we headed for Tiananmen Square, the largest city square in the world.  Famous for the Chinese student protests in the 1990, the area houses all the important government buildings, very similar to the mall in Washington, D.C.  There were tourists all over; many of them were Asian from other areas of China.  Also, while the sun shone and the temperatures were in the low to mid-50s, there were such strong wind gusts that we were afraid we would lose some of the families' children to the wind.

We also toured the Forbidden City, where past emperors lived.  While it was really interesting learning about the different rooms, architecture, etc., the wind made it sooo cold that by the end of our tour, we were definitely ready to leave.

Now, as we sit in our hotel room, Tim wants me to mention that he's watching a Chinese basketball league on TV and former GA Tech star, Stephon Marbury, is playing for the blue team. (Since we can't read Chinese, we don't know the name of team.)  Also, strangely, they are playing the Rocky theme in the background.

I promise I'll try to post pictures later.  Tomorrow - the Great Wall!!!  I can't wait!

Thoughts When Traveling...


Yea!  We did make it to China, at approximately 11:40 p.m. and arrived at our hotel at approximately 1:15 a.m. Friday.  Needless to say, we were just a little tired.  Our flight came in early to Tokyo, and Tim and I spent the four plus hours there taking turns stretching out on the waiting seats and napping.

Below are some thoughts while we were on our first leg of the trip.  Photos are soooo slow loading, so I'll try again later.

Well, it’s about 10:00 p.m. Eastern time and we’re up to hour nine of our 13 ½ hour flight to Tokyo, the first leg of our trip.  Watching the flight tracker, we have flown northwest, up through Canada, across Alaska and the Bering Strait, touching Siberia, and are now headed southwest towards our destination.  The flight has been relatively smooth, but I have been antsy.  When we flew to Ethiopia, I was able to relax and watch movie after movie.  However, during this time (which is longer than both of our legs to Ethiopia), I watch a little, doze a little, and walk/stretch a little. 

I know I’m excited and restless, but I think this is the first time that I am able to focus on what we’re actually doing (bringing our beautiful, new daughter home) than focusing on taking care of my kids at home and at school and preparing for the trip.  I hope they have talked to Chloe about us and shared at least the letters and pictures we sent in her care packages.  I hope she knows that she is already loved and is considered a part of our family.

Josh, one of the founders of our adoption agency, CCAI, answered a question on our travel call from a family who is also adopting a child who is in foster care.  The family asked whether they would be able to meet their child’s foster family and Josh said more than likely no.  He then went on to state the foster families are paid to take children in and said that their child would just be replaced by another, basically indicating that foster children are just numbers, a means to make some cash and replaceable commodities.  I so hope that this isn’t the case with Chloe.  I hope she has been loved, and I hope her foster family cares for her as if she is their own.  See the picture in older post.  This gives me hope that she has had a good experience.  Just look at how her foster mother is smiling up at her.

We now have 3 hours and fifty-seven minutes until we land in Tokyo.  We’re taking pills for jet lag and I sure hope they work.  I want to soak in as much of China as we can and, more importantly, I want to be rested and ready to meet our daughter.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

15 Hours to Take Off...

Well, today was a good day.  I got a lot accomplished and I am almost all packed.  In addition, my mom is feeling better, my kids are in bed, and my sister and Meredith are here.  The next time I write we should be in Beijing.  It just seems surreal...

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Three days before take off...

Okay, so I think that by the time I get on the plane I may suffer a nervous breakdown.  This past Tues., I was in a car accident (Yes, it was my fault.) and yesterday I received a phone call from my mother telling me that she did not feel well enough to make the trip to Loganville to watch the kids.  AGHHHHH!!!! 

Well, I've always bought into the saying that when life gives you lemons, make lemonade, but I don't know how much sugar I have left in the pantry.  (Like the metaphor?)  However, I have to say that the sweetest part of my life right now, other than my delicious children, is my dear sister, who is traveling last minute from Lexington, KY with her daughter to watch the kids until spring break.  Then, my in-laws and brother and sister-in-law will take over until we get home.  (They are also right up there in sweetness.)  Below is one of my favorite pics of her and her beautiful daughter, Meredith.


On a positive note, all of my essays are graded and my plans are almost ready for my permanent substitute at school.  I am beginning to pack and spent a great afternoon with my daughter getting our nails done.  Happy Sunday!

Thursday, March 8, 2012

We're heading to China soon!

On Tuesday, our agency informed us that they had confirmation of our consulate date, April 3, in Guangzhou, China!  This is the time that we meet with U.S. officials and promise to love and care for our daughter forever.  The appointment also is the process for generating Chloe's visa to travel to the U.S.  For us, this date is so appropriate because Tim and I will also be celebrating our 19 year commitment to each other.  That's right; we'll be married 19 years April 3!  Being together in China with the newest family member just seems like the appropriate way to celebrate our anniversary.

This date was also the last piece of information our agency needed before setting official travel dates.  Below is our tentative general itinerary.  (We'll get our official travel packet some time next week.)


  • Leave for Beijing - Wed., 3/21 at 12:40 p.m.
  • Arrive in Beijing - Thurs., 3/22 at 11:40 p.m.
  • Adjusting to the time change, resting, and sightseeing - Fri. and Sat., 3/23 and 3/24
  • Leaving for Hefei, Anhui (Chloe's province) - Sun., 3/25
  • "Gotcha" Day - Mon., 3/26
  • Consulate Appointment in Guangzhou - Tues., 4/3
  • Late night flight from Guangzhou to Hong Kong - Thurs., 4/5
  • Leave for home from Hong Kong - Fri., 4/6
  • Arrive in Atlanta - Fri., 4/6 at 7:40 p.m.
We are sooo excited....and overwhelmed.  We can't wait to bring our girl home!

Friday, March 2, 2012

Travel Approval Today!!!

Wow!  I think I'm still in shock.  We received an email around 11:15 this morning stating that we have travel approval (TA)!  This is HUGE!  This means that the Chinese Center for Children's Welfare and Adoption (CCWA) has reviewed our documents and given the FINAL approval for us to travel to China to bring Chloe home.  Now, we just have to wait for our agency to receive the hard-copy of the approval (which could be later today or Monday), so they can request our Consulate appointment.  All of our travel will revolve around our Consulate appointment date, so this is really the final piece of the puzzle.

Based on our TA, our agency gave us two options in terms of travel.

Option 1

Leave around March 14 - 16 and return some time around March 28 - 31.

Option 2

Leave around March 21 - 23 and return some time around April 5 - 7.

Because we would like adequate time to prepare (Tim's basketball banquet is March 19.), we did request Option 2 as our first option.  However, we said we could definitely do Option 1 if Option 2 is not a possibility.

I am so excited and overwhelmed that I'm not sure what to do first!  I'm just loving the fact that we'll be able to meet her so soon.